When visiting a song, GetSong() was called, but this object was never
returned by calling ReturnSong().  This patch locks the database only
once in Visit() and passes the original song object to the visitor,
avoiding the copy.

Allow the plugin to allocate the GetSong() return value.

Optimize the ProxyDatabase by invoking "stats" on the peer, instead of
visiting all songs.

Optimize the ProxyDatabase by invoking "list" on the peer, instead of
visiting all songs.

Let the database plugin do the match.

GLib 2.16 was released more than 4 years ago.  Let's remove some cruft
from the glib_compat.h header, and avoid new cruft to it.

Reduce the number of lock/unlock cycles, and make database handling
safer.

Random access is not needed, and a linked list is easier to manage: we
don't need to (re-)allocate the pointer array.

Pass only the "name" to a directory, instead of the full (relative)
path.

New db_get_song() implementation.

First draft, not really pluggable currently - hard-coded to use the
"simple" plugin, and calls several of its internal functions.

The API is very simple currently, all searches are still performed
over the root "directory" object.  Future changes to the API will move
those search implementations into the plugin, to allow more efficient
implementations, or implementations that don't have the whole tree in
memory all the time.