Since we switched from autotools to Meson in commit
94592c14, we don't need to include
`config.h` early to properly enable large file support.  Meson passes
the required macros on the compiler command line instead of defining
them in `config.h`.

This means we can include `config.h` at any time, whenever we want to
check its macros, and there are no ordering constraints.

Only _WIN32 is defined by the compiler, and WIN32 is not standardized
and may be missing.

Closes #169

Now ClearSocketList() may only be called from PrepareSockets().
Calling it before destroying the object doesn't work properly, because
it doesn't unregister the TimeoutMonitor and the IdleMonitor.  Some of
its callers need to be fixed.

Users now have to call Close() explicitly.  This simplifies using the
class, as most users have automatic socket management already, and
Steal() had to be used often.

Move code from AlsaMixerPlugin.

Now that the remaining known bugs in poll() implementation are fixed,
we can go on without the GLib implementation.

This change adds two configuration options:

  --with-eventloop=[glib|internal|auto]
  --with-pollmethod=[epoll|auto]

First allows switching between GLib event loop and internal one.
Second chooses backend to use for internal event loop.
Conditional compilation symbols are changed accordingly.
Additional helper macro MPD_OPTIONAL_FUNC_NODEF is added as well.

The header glib_compat.h is now obsolete and can be removed.

Implement an event loop without GLib.

Prepare for migrating away from GLib.

Unsigned and portable.

Handle timeout internally.

Simplify the API, don't use GLib specific integer type.