Prepare the transition to std::mutex.

This adds a bit of overhead, but also adds flexibility to the API,
because arbitrary triggers may be invoked from that virtual method
implementation, not just Cond::signal().

The motivation for this is to make the handlers more dynamic, for the
upcoming buffering class utilizing ProxyInputStream.

Obsolete class CloseSongEnumerator, which was a kludge.

The old struct config_param remains only for top-level string options.

Allows forward-declaration.

Replaces struct playlist_provider.

Add GMutex, GCond attributes which will be used by callers to
conditionally wait on the stream.

Remove the (now-useless) plugin method buffer(), wait on GCond
instead.  Lock the input_stream before each method call.  Do the same
with the playlist plugins.

Based on this API, we will add parsers for EXTM3U, PLS, ASX, last.fm
radio and others.

There is no integration into the MPD core yet.  Right now, we have a
command line test program.  This is work in progress.