Since we switched from autotools to Meson in commit
94592c14, we don't need to include
`config.h` early to properly enable large file support.  Meson passes
the required macros on the compiler command line instead of defining
them in `config.h`.

This means we can include `config.h` at any time, whenever we want to
check its macros, and there are no ordering constraints.

Fixes thread sanitizer warnings.

Fixes thread sanitizer warnings.

Move its code to DeferEvent instead.

The intrusive contains can easily erase items without searching
through the whole list.  This removes a good amount of runtime
overhead.

By using an "intrusive" data structure, we can easily eliminate
struct TimerRecord.

Prepare to eliminate the TimerRecord struct.

Allows eliminating lots of complexity and workarounds for bogus
assertion failures.

Fixes build breakage by commit 4e5271fc; and this method does make
sense in non-debug builds.

Add the debug-only flag "virgin" which gets checked by assert()
calls.  Fixes assertion failures when using zeroconf/avahi.

Add a flag that indicates whether the EventLoop is currently "busy".
As long as that flag is set, it does not need to be woken up - we can
simply add the DeferredMonitor to the list, and it will be caught by
EventLoop very soon.  This eliminates nearly all of the
DeferredMonitor overhead when compared to IdleMonitor, rendering
IdleMonitor mostly obsolete.

Improved support for added events.

Now that the remaining known bugs in poll() implementation are fixed,
we can go on without the GLib implementation.

Instead of creating a new eventfd for each DeferredMonitor instance,
reuse EventLoop's eventfd, and add a std::list to EventLoop that
manages the list of pending DeferredMonitors.  This std::list is
protected by the same mutex as the "calls" list.

The bottom line is: reduced overhead because the per-instance eventfd
was eliminated, slightly added overhead due to Mutex usage (but
negligible), and we're thread-safe now.

This subsystem is now good enough to replace EventLoop::AddCall().

This change adds two configuration options:

  --with-eventloop=[glib|internal|auto]
  --with-pollmethod=[epoll|auto]

First allows switching between GLib event loop and internal one.
Second chooses backend to use for internal event loop.
Conditional compilation symbols are changed accordingly.
Additional helper macro MPD_OPTIONAL_FUNC_NODEF is added as well.