This commit adds the basic infrastructure for reporting bugs from
DecoderAPI.cxx via DecoderThread.cxx to DecoderControl.

Reduce header dependencies and allow it to be nullptr to disable it.

Must hold the Mutex to signal the Cond object safely.

When playing a CUE track, the player thread waited for the decoder to
become ready, and then sent a SEEK command to the beginning of the CUE
track.  If that is near the start of the song file, and the track is
short enough, the decoder could have finished decoding already at that
point, and seeking fails.

This commit makes this initial seek more robust: instead of letting
the player thread deal with the difficult timings, let the decoder API
emulate a SEEK command, and return it to the decoder plugin, as soon
as the plugin finishes its initialization.

This is not necessary since all relevant input plugins have been moved
to the I/O thread, and there is no remaining useful buffer()
implementation.  This also fixes a busy loop when playing radio.

Apply the replay gain in the output thread.  This means a new setting
will be active instantly, without going through the whole music pipe.
And we might have different replay gain settings for each audio output
device.

The replay_gain_state struct holds the precalculated scale factor,
which is removed from struct replay_gain_info.

This function replaces the replay_gain_info parameter for
decoder_data().  This allows the decoder to announce replay gain
changes, instead of having to pass the same object over and over.

Remove the data_time parameter from decoder_data().  This patch
eliminates the timestamp counting in most decoder plugins, because the
MPD core will do it automatically by default.

Allocate a decoder_control object where needed, and pass it around.
This will allow more than one decoder thread one day.

When a new song starts playing, send its tag (song->tag) to the music
pipe.  This allows output plugins to render tags for all songs, not
only those with embedded tags understood by the decoder plugin.

This updates the copyright header to all be the same, which is
pretty much an update of where to mail request for a copy of the GPL
and the years of the MPD project. This also puts all committers under
'The Music Player Project' umbrella. These entries should go
individually in the AUTHORS file, for consistancy.