Fixes hide_playlist_targets not working after server restart

Currently, `hide_playlists_targets` works by skipping songs with
`in_playlist` value set to true in
[`Directory::Walk`](https://github.com/MusicPlayerDaemon/MPD/blob/a57bcd02382947abbd961594cdf00302c0c7866a/src/db/plugins/simple/Directory.cxx#L237). But
`in_playlist` is not stored and only updated in
[`UpdateWalk::PurgeDanglingFromPlaylists`](https://github.com/MusicPlayerDaemon/MPD/blob/a57bcd02382947abbd961594cdf00302c0c7866a/src/db/update/Playlist.cxx#L139),
which will only be executed while updating DB.

This causes the problem that playlist target songs are correctly
hidden after database update, but will remain visible after mpd server
restarted. This pr solves the problem by storing `in_playlist` value
of songs into the `SimpleDatabase` file.

Enables the "Format" row in "playlistinfo" responses.

https://github.com/MusicPlayerDaemon/MPD/issues/1094

The ones in std have overloads for const char/char.
Signed-off-by: Rosen Penev <rosenp@gmail.com>

Will be used for Song objects representing tracks inside a CUE file.

Eliminate unnecessary dynamic allocations.

This attribute is not a URI; it is just the filename without its
parent directory path.  To avoid confusion, let's rename it to
"filename", leaving the struct without a "uri" attribute.

No longer allocate it as a "VarSize".  This used to be a clever trick
to save memory 10 years ago, but these days, keeping the code
maintainable seems more important than saving a few kilobytes of
memory.

Since we switched from autotools to Meson in commit
94592c14, we don't need to include
`config.h` early to properly enable large file support.  Meson passes
the required macros on the compiler command line instead of defining
them in `config.h`.

This means we can include `config.h` at any time, whenever we want to
check its macros, and there are no ordering constraints.

For Android pre-5.0 compatibility (#213).

Reduces overhead because we need to manage only one memory allocation.
According to valgrind/massif, we save 7%.