Since we switched from autotools to Meson in commit
94592c14, we don't need to include
`config.h` early to properly enable large file support.  Meson passes
the required macros on the compiler command line instead of defining
them in `config.h`.

This means we can include `config.h` at any time, whenever we want to
check its macros, and there are no ordering constraints.

Fixes #165.

http://bugs.musicpd.org/view.php?id=4470

Manipulates the playback range of a queued song.

There was quite a lot of duplicate code for loading DetachedSong
objects, with different semantics for "securely" loading local files.

Detach the Song class completely from the public API, only to be used
by SimpleDatabase and the update thread.

Make the DetachedSong(Song) conversion constructor private.  Everybody
should use map_song_detach() which will take over more
responsibilities soon.

Don't create an intermediate Song instance when all we want is a
DetachedSong.

From now on, struct Song will be used by the database only, and
DetachedSong will be used by everybody else.  DetachedSong is easier
to use, but Song has lower overhead.