Move build rules from src/output/plugins/meson.build

This branch isn't yet ready for level 3 (`-Wpedantic`) due to several
C++ violations (e.g. variable length arrays).  These are already
cleaned up in the master branch (0.22).

Work around Meson bug https://github.com/mesonbuild/meson/issues/3672

The event library uses various libnet.a classes,
e.g. SocketDescriptor.

By accident, this was only enabled for C.

Fixes another build failure.

Commit 1eae9339 added support for
multiple "groups" in the "list" command, and this change allows
clients to detect that this behavior, which had been documented for
several years, is now implemented properly.

The custom_command was run in src/haiku/ and created a file with only resources inside.

Since xres edits the file in-place and meson doesn't like it, we have to run a shell script for now.
Maybe later I'll add proper support in meson.

Meson 0.49.0 adds native support for `libgcrypt-config` which is
necessary for detecting libgcrypt dependencies, as the latest
version 1.8.4 of libgcrypt does not provide a .pc file.

There is a minor new feature (commit 713c1f2b) and clients might be
interested in detecting it by the protocol version.

libwrap is an obscure artefact from a past long ago, when source IP
address meant something.

And its API is "interesting"; it requires the application to expose
two global variables `allow_severity` and `deny_severity`.  This led
to bug #437.  I don't want to declare those variables; instead, I'd
like to remove libwrap support.

Closes #437