Fixes #994 - moveoutput: new AudioOutputControl created from copyMoving an output to a partition is now done via MultipleOutputs::AddCopy(),using a new AudioOutputControl constructor. Tags and always_on settings willpersist when moving outputs between partitions.

No output at all is fine.  If the partition needs an output, it must
be moved there, but having just a null output isn't helpful.

By eliminating GetAnyClient(), we can have instances with no outputs
at all.

Since we switched from autotools to Meson in commit
94592c14, we don't need to include
`config.h` early to properly enable large file support.  Meson passes
the required macros on the compiler command line instead of defining
them in `config.h`.

This means we can include `config.h` at any time, whenever we want to
check its macros, and there are no ordering constraints.

Keep MPD's footprint small until playback is requested.

With this commit, multi-player support becomes possible... it's just
not wired to the frontend yet.

This is based on massive amounts of refactoring work I did over the
past 9 years.

The first step to multi-player support.  Not much, just a dummy
command.

Turns out the lock-free code using atomics was not thread-safe.  The
given callback could be invoked by GLib before the source_id attribute
was assigned.  This commit changes the DeferredMonitor class to use a
Mutex to block the event loop until source_id is assigned.  This bug
does not exist in the 0.19 branch because it does not use the GLib
main loop anymore.

Now that the remaining known bugs in poll() implementation are fixed,
we can go on without the GLib implementation.

Instead of creating a new eventfd for each DeferredMonitor instance,
reuse EventLoop's eventfd, and add a std::list to EventLoop that
manages the list of pending DeferredMonitors.  This std::list is
protected by the same mutex as the "calls" list.

The bottom line is: reduced overhead because the per-instance eventfd
was eliminated, slightly added overhead due to Mutex usage (but
negligible), and we're thread-safe now.

This subsystem is now good enough to replace EventLoop::AddCall().

This change adds two configuration options:

  --with-eventloop=[glib|internal|auto]
  --with-pollmethod=[epoll|auto]

First allows switching between GLib event loop and internal one.
Second chooses backend to use for internal event loop.
Conditional compilation symbols are changed accordingly.
Additional helper macro MPD_OPTIONAL_FUNC_NODEF is added as well.

Implement an event loop without GLib.

No caller needs this.  Fixes use-after-free after returning from
Client::OnTimeout().