Not only those which are "ready".

Fixes regression by commit 521e573b

Similar to commits 1686f4e8 and
30a5dd26

By making each SocketMonitor keep track of its ready flags, this
removes a lot of overhead from EventLoop::RemoveFD().

By bit-wise ANDing the reported flags with GetScheduledFlags(),
ERROR/HANGUP always get cleared.  This means the MPD event loop could
never report those conditions.

This fixes a freeze bug in the NFS input/storage plugins: when libnfs
auto-reconnets after a failure, it installs the new socket on the same
file descriptor number.  MPD's attempt to unregister the old socket by
calling SocketMonitor::Steal() from NfsConnection::ScheduleSocket()
fails because the new/old socket number is not registered in epoll, so
epoll_ctl() returns ENOENT.  The problem is that it left
`scheduled_flags`, and so subsequent Schedule() calls will use
`EPOLL_CTL_MOD`, which will fail again and again.  Instead, we need to
use `EPOLL_CTL_ADD` to register the new socket.

Closes https://github.com/MusicPlayerDaemon/MPD/issues/806

Closes https://github.com/MusicPlayerDaemon/MPD/issues/756

The former was deprecated with C++14.

According to the C++11 and C++17 standards, both files are identical.
Signed-off-by: Rosen Penev <rosenp@gmail.com>

Expect OnSocketReady() to cancel events.  If it returns false, the
SocketMonitor may be destructed already.  This fixes a use-after-free
bug in the "httpd" output plugin.

Since we switched from autotools to Meson in commit
94592c14, we don't need to include
`config.h` early to properly enable large file support.  Meson passes
the required macros on the compiler command line instead of defining
them in `config.h`.

This means we can include `config.h` at any time, whenever we want to
check its macros, and there are no ordering constraints.

Only _WIN32 is defined by the compiler, and WIN32 is not standardized
and may be missing.

Closes #169

Migrate callers to GetSocket().Read(), GetSocket.Write(), which is the
same.

Users now have to call Close() explicitly.  This simplifies using the
class, as most users have automatic socket management already, and
Steal() had to be used often.

Now that the remaining known bugs in poll() implementation are fixed,
we can go on without the GLib implementation.

This change adds two configuration options:

  --with-eventloop=[glib|internal|auto]
  --with-pollmethod=[epoll|auto]

First allows switching between GLib event loop and internal one.
Second chooses backend to use for internal event loop.
Conditional compilation symbols are changed accordingly.
Additional helper macro MPD_OPTIONAL_FUNC_NODEF is added as well.