This is another instance of the kludge we already have a few lines
above that.  It works around a deadlock/race condition revealed by
commit 98a7c62d

Allow using libyajl in other parts of MPD.

Allow implementations to install the "real" input later.

Prepare to allow callers to pass custom request headers.

Allows the caller to decide whether to enable the feature.

The IcyMetaDataParser cannot be initialized already in OnHeaders(),
because it will be initialized late in that method; and there will not
be another OnHeaders() call, because streams with Icy metadata are not
seekable, thus there will not be another HTTP request.

Use the "==" operator instead of pthread_equal().

This allows us to eliminate two boolean flags which are there to avoid
race conditions, and made the thing so fragile that I got tons of
(correct) thread sanitizer warnings.

Convert the fill_buffer to a class method, to allow accessing the private method.

Also remove the leftover Wrapper stuff.

This fixes a build issue on Haiku as it does have sin_len.
Tested on Linux as well.

For some reason AC_CHECK_MEMBER doesn't generate the proper define
in config.h.in, so I used AC_CHECK_MEMBERS.

This completes the bug fix commit
2065e329; if we clear "queued" then we
must clear "queued_song" as well, or another variant of the assertion
fails.

MPD doesn't use this feature anyway.